I felt my husband grab my hand and kiss it, and I knew that was it...he slid into my arms and tears began to drown me. I started to thank him for everything we had for 26 years, because I knew once the plane landed his lifeless body would be taken away and things would never be the same. I was paralyzed in grief, but that was only the beginning of a long drawn out drama. Closing down his life would be brutal and let's face it, his not being prepared cost me so much time and money. I found myself lying on the bathroom floor at work and knew then I needed help. I needed someone to guide me. I had lost my husband in less than 60 days and it took me another 840 days to close out his estate. So I am here to share with you my lessons to help you get prepared for your own losses. So you don't go through what I went through.